Dangerous? Yes. Incendiary? Indeed. But looking at the numbers for whom it's worked out for, it seems it's darn worth the try.
Introducing Dr. Nancy Kalish, psychologist and author of the infamous Lost Love Project. After interviewing over 3500 people aged 18 to 89 on the subject, it became evident that finding and rekindling your lost love is big romantic business.
Two thirds of respondents had reunited with their first love from when they were 17 years old, and the success rate of staying together for these unions stands at 78 per cent.
The trouble, however, with contacting a long lost flame is the potential for emotional (and sometimes physical) affairs.
After all, once those first-love feelings of intoxication come flooding back, they're almost impossible to ignore. Why? Because these lovers "knew each other in their formative years," explains Kalish. "They grew up in the same town, went to school together, were usually first loves; they knew each other's families. This is not a fantasy. It is a love that was interrupted."
But when you do find your interrupted love, it isn't something to be taken lightly. What if either of you now have a family? If you've relocated? If you've found love elsewhere?
The question that many have had to ask is: do you go at it? Do you kiss your current life goodbye? Or do you give your old flame the goodbye kiss?
Perhaps the best thing to avoid the first love Google search in the first place ...
Describe your first love. Have you rekindled? Would you?
<<<---Back
Introducing Dr. Nancy Kalish, psychologist and author of the infamous Lost Love Project. After interviewing over 3500 people aged 18 to 89 on the subject, it became evident that finding and rekindling your lost love is big romantic business.Two thirds of respondents had reunited with their first love from when they were 17 years old, and the success rate of staying together for these unions stands at 78 per cent.
The trouble, however, with contacting a long lost flame is the potential for emotional (and sometimes physical) affairs.
After all, once those first-love feelings of intoxication come flooding back, they're almost impossible to ignore. Why? Because these lovers "knew each other in their formative years," explains Kalish. "They grew up in the same town, went to school together, were usually first loves; they knew each other's families. This is not a fantasy. It is a love that was interrupted."
But when you do find your interrupted love, it isn't something to be taken lightly. What if either of you now have a family? If you've relocated? If you've found love elsewhere?The question that many have had to ask is: do you go at it? Do you kiss your current life goodbye? Or do you give your old flame the goodbye kiss?
Perhaps the best thing to avoid the first love Google search in the first place ...
Describe your first love. Have you rekindled? Would you?
<<<---Back
0 comments:
Poskan Komentar